{"id":10946,"date":"2024-06-13T11:07:51","date_gmt":"2024-06-13T16:07:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/?p=10946"},"modified":"2024-06-20T16:09:05","modified_gmt":"2024-06-20T21:09:05","slug":"break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/","title":{"rendered":"Break Through Your Manifesting Ceiling"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-anchor-fm-inc wp-block-embed-anchor-fm-inc wp-embed-aspect-21-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" title=\"118: Break Through Your Manifesting Ceiling by Spiritually Inspired: Manifesting, Mindfulness, And Magic\" src=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/spiritually-inspired\/embed\/episodes\/118-Break-Through-Your-Manifesting-Ceiling-e1sh1v2#?secret=zlKpWEovfP\" data-secret=\"zlKpWEovfP\" height=\"102px\" width=\"400px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Your_Manifesting_Toxic_Trait_and_How_To_Banish_It\"><\/span>Your Manifesting Toxic Trait and How To Banish It<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_80 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6986d21766209\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6986d21766209\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/#Your_Manifesting_Toxic_Trait_and_How_To_Banish_It\" >Your Manifesting Toxic Trait and How To Banish It<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/#Why_Self_Sabotage\" >Why Self Sabotage?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/#What_is_Coaching\" >What is Coaching?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/#How_To_Recognize_Self_Sabotage_In_The_Moment\" >How To Recognize Self Sabotage In The Moment<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/break-through-your-manifesting-ceiling\/#Break_Through_Your_Manifesting_Ceiling\" >Break Through Your Manifesting Ceiling<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p>Since becoming a manifesting coach, I\u2019ve observed a spiritual phenomenon that nearly all my clients experience during their sessions. And I don\u2019t have any other way to say it, other than to simply blurt it out: nearly <em>everyone <\/em>completely sabotages themselves and their own success. Consistently. And they\u2019re <em>good<\/em> at it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It\u2019s highly likely during your manifesting journey that critical thoughts will take over\u2013you must address it in order to manifest something different than what you\u2019ve already manifested.<\/em> I say this with love and encouragement because I\u2019ve seen proof that <em>everyone<\/em> experiences moments of ego tyranny.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Self sabotage comes in endless forms: self deprecating thoughts, excuses, justifications, new physical reactions (like a sudden \u201crandom\u201d ailment that throws a wrench in all your plans,) and anything else that pops up only to threaten the freshly budding transformation building up within you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I can think of many times in my life where I sabotaged myself. And many people have told me stories where they\u2019ve done it too. All of us do this, and it\u2019s absolutely okay.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Today we&#8217;re talking all about this self-sabotaging toxic habit we all indulge in, how to recognize it, and how to work through it. I do not want to see any more spiritual women dimming their own light because they\u2019ve convinced themselves of LIES about achieving their dreams. So you\u2019re exactly where you need to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Self_Sabotage\"><\/span>Why Self Sabotage? <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>So first, I want to give a little background on how I began noticing this self-sabotaging streak in my clients. Then we\u2019ll talk about how we work through it, and my goal is that you\u2019ll have all the tools you\u2019ll need for when <em>you\u2019re<\/em> ready to invest in my private program <em>Manifest On Purpose.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When I first started coaching, I had grand dreams of taking clients on a glorious twelve week journey of manifesting and mindfulness and crystal reiki. It only took a handful of clients going through the longer program for me to realize how overwhelming that commitment was for most people.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>So I shortened it to 8 weeks, then 6 weeks, and that\u2019s when the pattern of self sabotage started emerging. It\u2019s been over a year since then, and I have found a way to address this inevitability in a spiritual and supportive way.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/manifesting\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/advertising-graphics-.png\" alt=\"Your FREE Manifesting Bundle is available now! 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A coach is someone who<em> <\/em>can help you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Achieve the goals you set for yourself\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Get clear on the goal<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get clear on the action steps<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Encouragement and accountability&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dream up ambitious goals&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Reconsider what is actually possible for you and what you actually want<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pinpoint exactly what thoughts and habits are causing roadblocks&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Brainstorm ways to change your life situation&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Explore new and\/or difficult questions that provoke personal growth&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Turn your \u201cI don\u2019t know\u201d\u2019s into \u201cI\u2019m ready to grow.\u201d\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Help you shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Change your habits and thought patterns to support your goals<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>See what events in your past could possibly be having an effect on your future<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This is different from therapy because therapy helps you <em>heal<\/em> from those past events through various techniques (and possibly medications) in a clinical setting. Therapy and coaching work very well together. Especially when you also bring in energy healing so you can get a truly holistic lifestyle, as discussed in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/holistic-healing-defined\/\">episode 113 Holistic Healing Defined<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Both therapy and coaching have the potential of showing you exactly what you need to do to improve your life. The extent to which you commit to the improvements is what makes these modalities more or less effective.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>And here\u2019s where self sabotage comes in. When you first begin coaching, you go through a honeymoon phase. You\u2019re excited, you\u2019re committed, you\u2019re feeling the transformation already and it\u2019s eye-opening. This is usually the first three sessions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>During those sessions, clients are always open and ready to do the work, to examine the depths, and to heed Spirit messages. It\u2019s beautiful and always so much fun! But then\u2026the real work sets in.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Just like a romantic relationship with another person, what unfolds in the wake of the honeymoon phase is a more accurate representation of what this journey will feel like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Not to say the honeymoon phase isn\u2019t delightful and telling. Who doesn\u2019t love getting swept up in the magic of something new? That\u2019s setting the tone for the rest of the journey.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My clients and I almost <em>always<\/em> uncover the most important obstacles for them to work through in the first few sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes the client is shocked by what we find. Other times they say it\u2019s the same thing they already knew they needed to work on. Either way, they\u2019re left with a choice after the end of the third session.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They can either do things they\u2019ve never done before, taking full advantage of their coaching container, and begin to solidify their inner transformation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Or they can do things they\u2019ve always done, leaving potential on the table, and stall their transformation to a near complete-stop.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buymeacoffee.com\/sararae\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/become-a-member-2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10490\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/become-a-member-2.png 1200w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/become-a-member-2-500x262.png 500w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/become-a-member-2-800x419.png 800w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/become-a-member-2-600x314.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>This<\/em> is the spiritual phenomena that I keep observing. Almost <em>all<\/em> my clients are naturally inclined to fall back into their old habits and mutilate all the magic they\u2019ve cultivated so far.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I checked in with some of my coaching colleagues, and they confirmed that this is common, especially among women. We all get to a point where we <em>have to take action<\/em>, and it\u2019s completely up to us to keep the momentum going.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I can coach you until I collapse, but it\u2019s all in vain if you don\u2019t do the work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Clients are the most susceptible to session cancellations, second guessing, confusion, and even ghosting once the third session is done.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s ridiculously easy to convince themselves that the work is already done, or that there\u2019s nothing that will change the situation, or that the transformation isn\u2019t worth the effort, or whatever other lies the ego is spewing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing is though, you all know none of that is true. As an objective listener, you know that the work isn\u2019t done after only three sessions, that it\u2019s possible to change <em>any <\/em>situation with the right action steps, and that the transformation is <em>always<\/em> worth the effort it takes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>But once you shift from objective listener to active participant, it becomes a lot harder to see those egoic lies for what they really are: self sabotage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>They seem like reasonable, logical snippets of a sad truth. And that\u2019s the point. The ego\u2019s job is to keep us safe and alive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Any change in our habits, psyche, or environment are seen as threats to our <em>literal survival.<\/em> This is often why change and transformation is so hard and scary. It <em>feels<\/em> like a threat to our lives when big change starts happening.&nbsp;Especially if that big change also involves rebuilding and\/or restructuring the way we live our daily lives. That\u2019s <em>the most <\/em>threatening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_To_Recognize_Self_Sabotage_In_The_Moment\"><\/span>How To Recognize Self Sabotage In The Moment<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You\u2019re going to have to face your inner demons eventually, otherwise growth won\u2019t occur. And it\u2019s really hard to manifest when your vibration is stagnant.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My favorite thing to do in sessions is point out the exact moment someone vocalizes the exact reason for their manifesting blocks without even realizing it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s things like \u201cIt\u2019s not possible for me to buy the house I want.\u201d Or along the lines of \u201cI can\u2019t do my spiritual practices or talk about my beliefs out in the open.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Do these sentences hold some truth? Yes. Are they also self sabotaging lies that are creating our current reality in which we experience that truth? <em>Also yes.<\/em> A huge yes.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The easiest way to recognize self sabotage in the moment (and not in hindsight) is through a caring, compassionate, objective third party such as a spiritual coach.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The important thing is to <em>remove bias.<\/em> Actually <em>listen<\/em> to the words you\u2019re saying out loud and in your own head. Take a step back, ask yourself how true they really are. And would you even want those things to be true anyway?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognizing the truth of difficult situations and outside factors influencing your life is not the same as self sabotage. That is when you defeat yourself by your own internal mechanisms of doubt, imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and more.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Be honest, kind, and gentle with yourself. What would you say to a child who is upset, claiming \u201cI can\u2019t do this! It\u2019s too hard! I give up!\u201d? Would you shame them for feeling that way because they should already know how amazing they are?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the vibe I get from spiritual women who self sabotage a lot: They think, \u201cI know! It\u2019s so frustrating that I know exactly why this is happening and how I can change it and yet I don\u2019t do it! I know!\u201d They\u2019re shaming themselves for not doing what they think they need to be doing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>But in the examples of both the child and yourself, reacting with shame and blame will only cause them to shut down, not improve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You can encourage yourself (and a child too!) to work past the toxic trait of self sabotage by:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Approaching the situation calmly with a loving tone<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Allowing space for emotions that arise quickly (like anger or frustration)\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Know it\u2019s okay to feel that way when things get hard<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Remind yourself that these obstacles in your path are deliberately there to teach you the exact skill you need right now&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>State the opposite of what your self sabotaging thought is\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cIt\u2019s impossible for me to buy the house I want\u201d changes to \u201cIt\u2019s completely possible for me to buy the house I want\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/sessions\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics-.png\" alt=\"BOOK YOUR PRIVATE SESSION\" class=\"wp-image-10967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics-.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--500x500.png 500w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--800x800.png 800w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--600x600.png 600w, https:\/\/www.spirituallyinspired.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/advertising-graphics--100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Break_Through_Your_Manifesting_Ceiling\"><\/span>Break Through Your Manifesting Ceiling<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You <em>can<\/em> break through your manifesting ceiling! And the Universe is showing you <em>exactly<\/em> what you need to do to do it. Your ego is assisting by demonstrating the triggers\/beliefs standing in your way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Every time you feel sabotage creeping in, shine a light directly onto it instead of shying away. Whatever form of sabotage that is coming forth for you now, deal with it once and for all. Recognize it for what it is\u2013a self imposed inner conflict that you can demolish and rebuild.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The Universe loves to shine bright spotlights directly onto <em>exactly<\/em> what we need to work through in order to break through our manifesting ceiling.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This is vital to manifesting. Those self sabotaging traits are coming up now because they are the <em>least<\/em> aligned with what you\u2019re trying to manifest. As long as they remain in your energy, your manifestation ceiling is intact.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the Universe\u2019s way of making it easy for you. All the best spiritual wisdom hides in plain sight. Everything is accessible, everything is easy, everything is natural, everything is simple. We just over think it because we\u2019re human. The Universe gets this, because It <em>wants<\/em> the experience. Which is why the Universe leaves spiritual clues behind for us to decipher.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Pay attention to the spiritual spotlight in your life. The Universe is making your manifesting blocks as obvious as possible. 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